We all know that men are very different from women.  There used to be the problem that women had not status in society, but that’s not what my problem is.  I’d like to know when it was that men got the idea that they could treat women as terribly as they do today.  Women might not have been equal to men in older times but men were courteous and there were even things like holding a door open for a girl (which no one knows where that went…probably right out the same door-metaphorically speaking), they used to walk on the outside of the road during the time that people threw their garbage out the window, and many other things.  Now where has it all gone?  In today’s society men don’t do anything for women anymore.  They complain that women are too loud, talk to much, gossip too much, and they wonder why they don’t get sex after marriage.  For all men out there, just because you got us to marry you, or date you for a year doesn’t mean that all respect and courtesy can now fly out the window.  I don’t understand where men get off saying, “I don’t know why my wife doesn’t have sex with me, or all my wife wants is a baby.”  If they were half the men they should be, maybe they would know better and actually treat women right.  I don’t have a link for this blog post so maybe it won’t count as a blog but this is all from my experience.  I may not be completely experienced when it comes to relationships but so far the only men I’ve found was one who took anger management classes because he threw a bowl of soup on a counselor, a guy who cheated on my with one of my best friends, and a guy who treats me like dirt every day and has actually tried to abuse me (and then he wonders why I don’t act the same towards him anymore).  You tell me why a girl like me would want to be in a relationship when all she can find is this.  You tell me who thinks that this is good behavior.  I’m not sure if it’s upbringing or if somehow I find all the losers in the city but it has become quite rediculous.  You show me a man who is decent and I will somehow find the worst part of him.  Explain to me why this is someone, anyone, because honestly I wonder if men are the inferior sex and I’ve lost all hope that they may ever be the equal of women.  A woman would give up anything for the person she loved or cared about and a man can’t even come out of his room in order to meet her.  A friend of mine was willing to give up anything for the man she loved, and yet he broke up with her because his parents didn’t like that she wasn’t jewish.  He loves her and misses her a lot but somehow he doesn’t have the guts to persue what he cares about and be with someone who loves him and would cherish him no matter what the cercumstances were, unlike the conditional love that his parents give him (which should be unconditional).  Show me how this is fair